Meeting Your Own Needs
Meet your own needs first so you don't depend on someone else to give those to you. Date from a place of fullness versus scarcity
I Didn’t Grow Up in a Sex-Positive Environment
I didn’t grow up in a sex positive environment, but I’m seeing that the resistance throughout my life has led me to finding more pleasure!
Getting Out is The Beginning of The Healing Journey
Getting out is just one step of the journey to healing from abusive relationships. Leaving requires a tremendous amount of energy,...
Why Sex Shouldn’t Be Synonymous with Intercourse
When we make sex mean intercourse, we put pressure on our partners and limit our capacity for epic sex and expanded pleasure
Letting Go of Something Amazing: How I Honored My Values and Myself
A partner could look great on paper, check all the boxes, and yet not fulfill your deepest core truths. Honor yourself first!
“Hi, I’m a Sex Coach”
I love the conversations that follow with strangers when I just mention, or they overhear, that I’m a Sex Coach. The world is starving...
Seven Months Celibate: What Pausing From Partner Sex Has Taught Me
Reclaiming my sexuality has been one of the most positive gifts I’ve given myself.
My Perspective on “Sex, Blood, and Royalty”
The Narcissistic Abuse Cycle is prevalent throughout the Netflix docudrama “Sex, Blood, and Royalty”.
Slow the F Down
Yesterday I had a deeply sensual and even erotic experience in the woods, and running hard on my favorite hill. It was a crisp, 45 degree...
RIP To My Favorite Vibrator
I had to let go of my trusty battery operated boyfriend the other day. It was on its way out for days, and I tried to revive it, but...
Practicing Bliss
The first four months of my Sex, Love and Relationships coaching program was completely focused on self-transformation, growth, and...
Make Time For Your Partner
Last night I co-hosted a Couples Workshop that included yoga, connection exercises, and massage. It was so beautiful to witness couples...
Grief is Part of Being Human
Grief and Depression have similar symptoms. They both often cause sleeping disorders, low energy, lack of desire in doing things you once...
Pleasure In The Mess
I have not just a lockbox, but one of those giant stack of heavy duty drawers you find in a mechanic’s garage FULL of tools to assist me...
Be Prepared For When It Gets Hard ;)
I’ve put myself through hard things, on purpose, so that when life gets hard, I’m better prepared. For example, if I told you how...
The Labyrinth
The Labyrinth Labyrinths are different from mazes. Mazes have cul de sacs and ways you may get stuck or lost, and your goal is just to...
Be the Bad Girl
What if you got to be the “Bad Girl” for a day? No consequences. You can say what you want. Let people know how you REALLY feel. You can...
Turn On Starts with You!
You can’t wait on anyone else to give you what you need. Taking self-responsibility is your key to empowerment. You are responsible for...